So I've been quite silent as of late; posting only to blurb up some meaningless pulse--or engage in attempts to conjure up a debate or argument. This is mostly because I see no need to post about my personal life much anymore. You guys like it more when I'm bashing something(one) to hell and back; or just being absolutely weird--so the personal aspect of my life was slowly phased out (as was my care to share it). However, as of last week I found something (other than my amazingly awesome girlfriend!) to write about in regards to my personal life.
On Tuesday I went into work. Simple summary; but the events that post-ceded my arrival are what made this a different experience than any other day. About a half-hour in, I was pulling two empty pallets (on a pallet jack) to the insulation aisle to drop a stack of R-38 type insulation for storage. I stopped by the paint aisle to answer a question from my coworker Johnny, and we talked for about a minute or so while I answered his question. As he left, Ricardo came up to me and asked if I had been heading towards the insulation. I said "yes" and began to head over. He wrapped two fingers around the other end of the pallet jack handle (I had the left side) and pulled it along with me. I turned to him and said: "I can handle this" He turned his head to me, sneered, and said sardonically: "Okay" and continued to hold on. We walked for about five more seconds before repeating the dance. And again. Finally, I had enough, let go of the handle and walked away to find our supervisor, Lucille. I found her back by the manager's office--talking to the night supervisor, Claudette. I told her what happened and she called Ricardo back to the office.
When he arrived, his first words were: "What's this slacker complaining about this time?!" Me: "ExCUSe me?" Him: "I'm tryin to get some work done around here; and all he's doing is standing around." Me: "I was answering a co-worker's question before bringing the pallets back to the..." Him: "NO YOU WEREN'T! You were just doing the same ol' thing: Walkin about with yo head in a fog." Me: "That's not true and you know it. At least you're finally doing something." Him: "Look who's talking! You've been here how long and you still don't know your way around?!" Me: "That's because I'm Autistic!" Him: ":laughs: You're not Autistic." Me: "Oh? And where's your degree that gives you the KNOWLEDGE AND RIGHT to diagnose that, hmm? I have a learning disa..." Him: "You're not Autistic. You're just lazy." Me: "No, I have a LEARNING DISABILITY YOU JACKASS!"
He got right in my face and began to spout verbal threats. Him: "Imma tell you what right now. I'll knock you out if you say one more thing like that again." Me: "FINE! You're a JACKASS!" Him: :to our supervisors: "You hear that?! He called me a 'jackass'. That's not my NAME!" Me: "We know it isn't your name. You're still a JACKASS." Him: "If you're 'disabled' then you don't belong here! You should be collecting some mental illness check!" Me: "You want to spout that discriminatory crap at me?! Fine!" :turns to Lucille: "I'm filing a harassment and discrimination complaint against Ricardo Williams for derogatory comments about my disability AND for physically threatening me. I'm asking both you and Claudette to witness this, and to file a form of complaint."
So, there's an investigation; and I've spoken to HR about it. I think I should talk with the rest of the management staff; since I've only talked to one of our three Assistant Managers; and haven't talked to the Store Manager yet. I don't mind people joking with me about my quirks, or my disability. But when you try to disempower me based on a mental disability? I got news for you: You're FUCKED.
Very well handled... keep me updated, I want to find out what happens to this fuckbucket.
You know, he told you to go home and collect a disability check, but he's probably one of the people that sits around and bitches about how people like that are just freeloading off the system.
What an asshole.
hellz yaw!
haha wow. That guy's an asshole.
So much for settling things peacefully and acting respectfully anymore. Good luck.
good for you! fuck that guy! wow, how rude he was!
I have ADHD/some mood disorder. it affects my ability to get motivated/stay on task/stay interested/feel the 'correct' way about things.
"oh you just don't know how to get your priorities straight" you're right, I don't, but its not because I CHOOSE to not get my priorities straight, its that I CAN'T get my priorities straight! I wish I knew how to!
sorry you had to deal with someone like this, but good for you for sticking up for yourself in a way that could get HIS ass in a lot of trouble in court. I'm glad you filed that complaint. PLEASE let me know what happens with this!!!
duuude. where this mofo at, dawg.
What the fuuuuuuuuck. That's fucked up.
Hope that asshole gets what he deserves.
No one's messing with my boyfriend. I remember when you told me about this. And as I was reading through, I'm sorry babe, I found it kinda funny that you shared here exactly how you said it to me on AIM. Hahahaha But yeah, the same anger is circling my heart like the axis of Saturn.
I already said this before, if there's anyone who wants to cross my baby, he/she has to do it over my dead sexy body.
Love you Scott. Tell me when he gets the pink slip.
Good for you, What an assmonkey.
Dude that is so awesome that your doing that. People need to learn not to fuck with Zeus, Your not lazy you are a hard worker i seen it, even though i mowed your lawn haha j/p but yeah it seems that he is a jackass for talking shit on ou. It's a good thing you didn't hit him, but nailed him hard in the cut with the suit..You Stand Up For Yourself and continue to stick up for the weak ones. The ones who don't have the guts to file complaints...Nice Job
Awesome!
You're seriously autistic? So is my boyfriend!
I do think you handled it well. Keep fighting for your rights and standing up for yourself.
Good for you! It's time those of us with disabilities started showing the world we can't just be walked all over.
I hope you get fired so you can sue and collect millions!
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Go you. <3.
Jesus Christ that is insane... what the Hell...
Hehe, good for you.
Very well handled... keep me updated, I want to find out what happens to this fuckbucket.
You know, he told you to go home and collect a disability check, but he's probably one of the people that sits around and bitches about how people like that are just freeloading off the system.
What an asshole.
hellz yaw!
haha wow. That guy's an asshole.
So much for settling things peacefully and acting respectfully anymore. Good luck.
good for you! fuck that guy! wow, how rude he was!
I have ADHD/some mood disorder. it affects my ability to get motivated/stay on task/stay interested/feel the 'correct' way about things.
"oh you just don't know how to get your priorities straight" you're right, I don't, but its not because I CHOOSE to not get my priorities straight, its that I CAN'T get my priorities straight! I wish I knew how to!
sorry you had to deal with someone like this, but good for you for sticking up for yourself in a way that could get HIS ass in a lot of trouble in court. I'm glad you filed that complaint. PLEASE let me know what happens with this!!!
duuude. where this mofo at, dawg.
What the fuuuuuuuuck. That's fucked up.
Hope that asshole gets what he deserves.
No one's messing with my boyfriend. I remember when you told me about this. And as I was reading through, I'm sorry babe, I found it kinda funny that you shared here exactly how you said it to me on AIM. Hahahaha But yeah, the same anger is circling my heart like the axis of Saturn.
I already said this before, if there's anyone who wants to cross my baby, he/she has to do it over my dead sexy body.
Love you Scott. Tell me when he gets the pink slip.
Good for you, What an assmonkey.
Dude that is so awesome that your doing that. People need to learn not to fuck with Zeus, Your not lazy you are a hard worker i seen it, even though i mowed your lawn haha j/p but yeah it seems that he is a jackass for talking shit on ou. It's a good thing you didn't hit him, but nailed him hard in the cut with the suit..You Stand Up For Yourself and continue to stick up for the weak ones. The ones who don't have the guts to file complaints...Nice Job
Good for you! It's time those of us with disabilities started showing the world we can't just be walked all over.
I hope you get fired so you can sue and collect millions!